Guide to Hiring An Escort

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The normal rate for an escort here in Malaysia usually ranges from RM150 to RM350; for a session that usually starts off with a massage and ends with you cumming - depending on where the location of the exchange, and the quality of the escort.

Local guys are usually cheaper, though I am not entirely sure what the rates are, but RM100 - RM150 should get you an outcall. I have never tried a local escort.

                                               

Foreign Asian masseur (usually from all over South East Asia, majority Indonesian) usually charge RM 200 for an outcall. Most of these guys are pretty decent looking and well-mannered but speaks very little to no English, and usually not a trained masseur like most of them claimed to be. And because there are so many of them here, it really comes down to your luck when you are dealing with the escort of your choice. From experience, it's always advisable to go for Thai and Vietnamese escorts. Indonesian comes in third, mainly because of the bad rep they usually get - and most of them tend to rush the session by giving a 10 minutes massage and proceed with a speedy hand-job till completion. And of course for the other 20%, it has been very satisfactory. But again, this is not a universal rule.

Most of these masseur have agents who brought them here. While most of them are usually only in town for a week or two, some do work here long term in a physical massage centre such as Fresh (website) in KL. I have never been to Fresh myself but I have done many out-calls with the guys that work there. And from what I was told, the rate charged at the massage centre is  inclusive of happy ending, but to what extend, depends on the masseur himself, so it is unnecessary to give tips at the end of the massage, but if you do feel good after the massage, I don't see why not be a little more generous if you think they deserved more. They pleased you after all.

                                                

Prime escorts, are usually European muscle gods and extremely good looking, and yes there seemed to be a lot of them here for some reason, usually for a few weeks. There are more of them in Singapore. It's pretty self explanatory. They cost a lot more than Asian escorts, usually starting from RM300 in-call and it could go up to an indefinite figure for out-calls and daily rates. Good thing despite the exorbitant rate is that these are professional escorts. They are well-mannered and presentable, and you almost always get what you paid for.

 

A Brief and General Guide to Hiring an Escort

Disclaimer: Based on my personal experience only.

Their profile photos : It doesn't matter where you find your escort, be it Grindr, Planet Romeo, or any other websites, always go for the ones with the least re-touching; and over the top air brushing is a big no no. No one's skin is supposed to be that smooth and shiny. I have learnt this the hard way and it is also one of the most talked about topic; when their pictures and stats are retouched beyond recognition. It might be very alluring and tempting, but most of the time you are probably going to end up feeling miserable when you see them.

Contacting Them : If you send them a text asking "what's your rate", you are probably not going to get much impression by receiving a very cold, computer generated-like reply. (i.e. 150/incall 200/outcall). Instead, give them a call, talk to them, that way you will get a very important second impression based on the way they talk. I have noticed that most Thai speaks very fast, it doesn't mean they are rushing you to make a decision, so there is no need to feel offended. 

Be clear on what you want and don't be shy to ask them if they can do what you want. Most of them will say they 'do everything' which is usually not the case. If you want to fuck, ask them if they are okay with bottoming. I have noticed that most of them don't carry a condom when they go and meet you, probably because there is a chance that you don't have one and it's only going to end with blowjobs, so if you want to fuck, be prepared, get your own rubbers. 

In most situation, they will make you cum - that's the end of their service. If you want them to cum, ask them before hiring if they are able to. You don't know how many clients they have before getting your call. If you don't but expect them to, you are probably going to be disappointed. Some will tell you they are tired and can't cum (especially if it's late in the night) So know what you want and be extremely clear. If you can settle with just a hand job, then go for it. 

Agree on a price and proceed with meeting up.

I read in a forum somewhere that a poster suggested that if you want to be sure of the person you are hiring, you should ask to meet them before sealing the deal. I have never done that, and never understood the need to do that and I am skeptical if any of them would agree to meeting prior to confirmation at risk of losing another potential client. However if that is what you want, you should be courteous, call them and ask nicely if they are free to meet you and be clear that you are still deciding. Go to them if possible. Alternatively, offer to pay for their taxi fares to come to you.

Meeting up : Enjoy and have fun.

Paying Them : Usually if the exchange was only for one short session in an outcall situation, the full payment shall be made at the end. But if you are hiring him  for the entire day or even several days, you should pay them half upon meeting up, and the rest at the end of their service. One of them had told me that they feel rude to ask for money straight up - so you should be considerate and pay them half of the agreed rate when meeting up. But I believe most of them will bring this up prior to meeting up.

When paying them, try not to bring up the rate, or even worst, try to bargain. Pass them the agreed amount and say thanks. If you feel like paying more - just give them the money, don't be an ass and say I'll pay you extra cuz you're so good. The extra they received speaks for itself. Treat this like you do with normal hookups.

Words of Advice

I've read and heard many bad things being said about escorts and most of the time it can be very insulting; after all people are paying them a lot of money. But here's the thing, you are also responsible of making the right choice. I'm not saying all my experiences were good. I've had really bad ones; some were my own mistake, some were beyond my control. 

There is one thing people should realize when engaging an escort - these guys are human, they have feelings too. It doesn't matter if you are rich and can pay a him thousands or even buy him a house. If you are butt ugly, or overly obese; the escort is probably not going to be attracted to you (subjective), much less having sex with you and it's probably going to suck. It doesn't matter how many times the escort has done it, it doesn't matter how many guys he has dealt with - there is no excuse for complaining and and bitching on an escort just because you feel  the 'sex wasn't good' because it's probably your fault too. And if your attitude sucks, it's just as bad as having an ugly face. So, look at yourself before you go about acting all high and mighty. There is no special set rules or skills when dealing with escorts. It's all basic etiquette we practice everyday - be nice and treat them how you want to be treated.